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Lay My Life Down For My Child
February 2, 2008
Category: Family




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Show Description: Did you see the story of Lorraine Allard over in the UK? She had three kids already and was four months pregnant. She found out she had liver cancer and had a simple, but difficult choice: she could abort the child and try and save herself, or she could keep the child and in all likelihood die. So was this selfless or selfish? Join the conversation as we look at life, death, and family.


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Lorraine Allard, a mother of 3 in the U.K., found out that she was in the advanced stages of liver cancer when she was already 4 months pregnant with her 4th child.

The doctors encouraged her to abort the pregnancy so they could begin aggressive chemotherapy. Not to do so would endanger Lorraine's own life.

Save her baby by delaying treatment or terminate the pregnancy to save herself

Lorraine chose to continue the pregnancy, gave birth to her 4th child, Liam. November 18

“If I am going to die, my baby is going to live.” She told her husband

She then began treatment for her own cancer but died January 18

Her widowed husband, Martyn, said "The doctors said they couldn't do anything because she was pregnant. She told them straight away they were not going to get rid of it. She'd have lost the will to fight."

"Lorraine was positive all the way through. She had strength for both of us. I can't begin to describe how brave she was. Towards the end we knew things weren't going well, but she was overjoyed that she had given life to Liam."

So now Martyn is raising Leah (10), Amy (8), Courtney (20 mos.) and Liam

I just think this is a remarkable story. A selfless, heroic act. In an age where abortion is so common and casual, Lorraine's selflessness is an inspiration.

Moreover, Martyn's courage is extraordinary. Here is a man/husband/father now facing the prospect of raising 4 children on his own, and he did the right thing.



Guys, what would you do?

If faced with this decision, could you let your wife go, leave behind 3 kids, and a newborn?

I have no idea

Horrible to think about

Sacrifice or selfish?


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