Welcome Home From College December 15, 2007
Category:
Family
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Show Description: My daughter came home this past week after her 1st semester of college. Wow, are things different. I can't believe how different things are. I think a lot of parents feel this way. So join the conversation as we look at what life is like after having your child go away to college.
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Allen's Legal Pad for Welcome Home From College
Love doing this show real life and faith
Right and wrong not politics
Get to share my life with you
You get to know me and what I feel
Slice of my real life
Surprising of all things talked about on this show
HWJV, swingers, take this job and shove it, Paulk sex scandal
Biggest response has not been Islam, adultery, even lottery
Biggest response was when I took my daughter to college
Be in Kroger, at family reunion, at church, having lunch
you know, I heard you share about taking your daughter to college
Here's what I said CLIP
That was a moment wow
Well, guess what? She's home came home on Tuesday for Christmas
tried to get her on the show tonight but she was busy!
First semester of college is over and it is weird now that she is home
Weird she is much more independent and self-confident doesn't need us in same way she did
Weird we had gotten used to just three of us being at home now 4 again table weird, garage weird, sister weird
Weird my role has changed now more friend and advisor than director went to a movie just me and her Atonement realized she is an adult now I now have a wonderful new young adult friend cool but weird
Dynamic is different
She can handle stuff on her own now
Now we knew things would be different knew that day in September that one chapter was closing and another one opening
But you kind of forget that expect things to be the same
I have to remember that farewell moment really was a farewell to one chapter
Things are not the same will not be and now is when we begin living that
Then there is my wife when daughter comes home, excited for days in anticipation
When she leaves, weepy and moping
Does it ever get better?
And my daughter last night sharing how one of her friends was headed home and trying to figure out how not to stay long
Just knew that she could no longer live under the rules, the oppressive regime of her parents Nazi rule any more
Allen's Top Five Vacation Spots
1. Brevard, NC
2. Brewster, Cape Cod, MA
3. Orcas Island, WA
4. Sorrento & Capri, Italy
5. Jackson, GA
Quotes to Live By
"If the religious system does not correspond to the prevalent social character, if it conflicts with the social practice of life, its only an ideology."
-Erich Fromm
Prayer Request from a Listener
I am 27 years old smoker with high blood pressure and high cholesterol. I cant seem to find the strength to quit smoking, eat better and start exercising. I have 2 children and want to be around as long as I can for them. Please help me pray for the motivation and strength to make these changes in my life. Thank you.
- Nate :: jacksonville, fl
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