I wasn't going to take a Weekender this month. Key West in May wore me out. But that didn't last long as I was itching to get out of Atlanta two weekends ago. So I called up my friend Pat who lives in Nashville on relatively short notice and went and stayed with him and his family.

It was a relaxing trip. Thursday was spent at home, smoking some cigars on his back patio and having great conversation. Friday was a day at the pool, followed by a party at the Nashville City Club.

Back in Indiana, and about 12 years prior, Pat was my youth pastor (as seen here being awesome when driving us on a ski trip to Michigan).

He is easily one of the top 3 mentors I have had in my life and with out a doubt I would not be the man I am today with out him.

As I went from the "heathen child I was" in Middle School when I first met Pat in 8th grade, to a probably overly zealous Christian in High School, to someone who went and got a Biblical Studies degree in college, to being the "moderately-liberal Christian" I am today producing a talk radio show, a lot has changed.

But through it all, Pat has always been a true inspiration and example of what a man of God looks like. I am not exaggerating in the least when I say I know no one who actively tries to improve themselves to be a better man more than Pat. He is one of the greatest husband, father, and friend that I know - yet he is always striving to be a better person.

It was something in an email he sent after my trip that made me appreciate just how deep the relationships God puts in our lives can become over time.

I’ve reflected a lot on our conversation on the patio. I’m thankful that God connected us so many years ago. I had no idea that when I met you as an 8th grader that we would share such a friendship. I have absolutely loved our conversations over the years and I’ve learned more from you then you realize.

Now what we discussed I am not going to elaborate on - after all, what happens in Nashvegas stays in Nashvegas - but the sentiment in his email to me is one of the most fulfilling things I have found in the deep relationships I have had with men and women all around the country that went from mentors to friends.

I still respect Pat more than just about anyone. And even though I have become a bit more "liberal" compared to him and my youth group days - I will always cherish his insight into life.

Thanks for a great weekend my friend.


Next weekender: probably DC the "weekend of July 17-19th." Cubs are in town so I might try to catch a game with some friends from the area. Then Oregon in August for Lissa's wedding.